PROVERBS 29:25

Fearing people is a dangerous trap,

    but trusting the Lord means safety.

TO PONDER

It was a piece of advice that was given to me early in ministry. "If people are happy with what you are doing a majority of the time, you are probably not challenging them beyond their comfort zone". Anyone who has led even the smallest of groups or even a family unit will know the truth of that. The moment that you push a group or an organization out of what is comfortable and familiar, the moment you challenge the status quo of people, the moment you pull the plug on a ministry that is no longer serving its original purpose, say 'no' to an opportunity that lies outside the core values or put up boundaries that seemingly limit the 'freedom' of your child, you are bound to get a reaction. It's a reaction that can range from mild annoyance or irritation to anonymous letters, unparalleled anger or even threats or abuse in its various forms. But making the tough calls is part of life and leadership.

Not every one will agree with the choices made, not everyone will be happy with the direction pursued, not everyone will cope well when their worldview is stretched. That's what stops many people even venturing down that road. For making the tough call and possibly hurting someone else's feelings sets us on a collision path with others where friendships can be destroyed and relationships fractured. Our fear of rejection, our concern of how we will be perceived, our propensity to want to please others can paralyze us into inaction because of the offense that may be caused. It can also lead us to compromise the very values we believe in or know is right.

That's a dangerous trap that causes great harm. Trust in Jesus not only anchors our life, but centres and aligns our heart in the identity he gives to us and the purpose he has for us. In him, we find peace and in his presence we find a security that guards and protects our life. May you experience that today.

PRAYER:

Forgive me, gracious Lord, when I am more worried about what others will think of me, that celebrating who you have called me as your precious child. Speak that truth again in the times when I feel the pressure to please others. Amen.